He's exacting on his environment how he feels.
When he's in pain or agitated, he may pull my hair. It seems he's trying to get my reaction to match his internal state.
It seems this way when bouncing, waving fingers or beads close to his face. He may be seeking the input, making the world more exciting for a moment, or he may be looking to create in the wotld a match for how he's feeling.
I choose music that highlights and intensifies how I'm feeling. Sometimes I seek out a sad movie because I need to cry. Sometimes I seek a hug b/c I need comfort. Their behavior seems to serve this function too.
My goal is to hold the space, be deeply present, and have his state match mine.
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